The Ringer
(L-R) Past Presidents Eddie Roberson and Buddy Shaw, Paul Warren and President Eric Jackson
There are several definitions of the word “ringer.” Used in context with the game of golf, a ringer is someone secured for a “best ball scramble” to help the team win. It’s common practice, especially for third-rate golfers like me who can’t bear losing despite the obvious personal inadequacies. Paul Warren was a ringer in golf and in life.
Everyone in our club – our family – has grieved the loss of Paul in different ways. Recalling the stories of Paul’s impact in our life has been cathartic. Whether deep and personal or casual and surface, the stories all have a familiar refrain. Paul was one of the “good guys.” With Paul there was never a harsh word. He was pleasant, gracious, happy and refreshing.
At the July 27th meeting, I asked for volunteers to play in the September 16th Gallatin Rotary Clubs Golf Tournament at Long Hollow. Paul volunteered immediately. I remember thinking, “Yes! Mmmwwaahahaha! We are going to win this thing!” Eddie Roberson and Buddy Shaw followed suit. Who could ask for a finer team?
They (with me doing a lot of watching) played very well that day and ended up placing in the first flight. Pictured is one of the shots I did manage to perfect that day: “the throw.” Hey, nobody said how far you had to throw it!
I got to know Paul a little better that day. It was obvious to me he was gifted in so many ways. I was so energized by playing with Rotarians that day; it even motivated me to finally make a written list of ringers for future tournaments. Before that day, they were always in my head. Paul Warren was first on that list. He will remain there.
Unfortunately, I didn’t get the honor of playing with Paul again. Many in our club didn’t know Paul very well and regret the opportunity we had and missed. The opportunities to connect with “ringers” of all kinds surround us on Wednesday morning and every day of our life. Don’t miss the opportunity to spend a little more time chatting. Linger a little longer. Work will still be waiting for you when you show up.
Yours in Rotary,
Eric
p.s. I owe Paul Goode an apology. I make fun of him because every time we mount a bicycle, he wants to take a picture of it. Never again, Paul…never again will I give you a hard time about "capturing the memories!"
